And whatever you ask in My name, this I will do, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. John 14:13-14
Asking in Jesus’ name is not a magic phrase we use to get what we want.
So many people latch on the part about asking and receiving and miss the surrounding context. It’s not “when you ask in Jesus’ name, then you will automatically receive what you’ve asked for”. It’s ”if X and you ask in Jesus’ name, then you will receive what you’ve asked for.”
“And whatsoever you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive all.” Matthew 21:22
We have to ask in prayer. In prayer is not reciting a list of requests and moving on to the next task of the day. Prayer is a four-way communication. We pray to God in the Spirit in Jesus’ name. The Spirit prays with us and sometimes for us. Jesus intercedes and adds to our prayer. The Father hears and replies. The Spirit tells us the Father’s response. We listen and adjust our attitude and prayer as the Spirit works in us and matures us.
Secondly, we must believe. Believe that God hears, answers and does what is best. Believe that what God wants is better than what we want. Then the Spirit will work in us to change our desires to want what God wants.
“Therefore, I say to you, all things for which you pray and ask, believe that you have received them and they will be granted to you.” Mark 11:24
Sometimes, many times, when we pray for what seems to be impossible, we don’t really fully believe that God can or will do it. Sometimes when we ask for something for ourselves, we don’t believe we’re worth it, or good enough or loved enough. The verse says “have received”. As soon as we pray (actually, way before we prayed) we already received what we prayed for. That’s how our God works.
“If you remain in Me and My words remain in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be done for you.” John 15:7
There are not one, but two conditions here. If we remain in Jesus, then we become more and more like Jesus. We begin to know the Father and what He wants, the kind of request that delights His heart. Secondly, as Jesus’ words (which are God’s words) remain in us. Remain, not bounce off our thick skulls, or flit around in our minds along with all our other thoughts and distractions. Remain, as in settle down, settle in, take root and grow until they are knitted into the fabric of our being. When we are one with Jesus and His words permeate our words, then whatever we ask for will be what God, Jesus and the Spirit would have asked for, what They want and so naturally it’s done. If we ask and don’t receive, then we need to get still in Their Presence and check the Word. If the request is sound and self-free, then we keep praying until the appointed time, always keeping in mind that we are only human and our experiences and desires influence our interpretations constantly.
“You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear fruit, and that your fruit would remain, so that whatsoever you ask the Father in My name He may give to you.” John 15:16
Here the condition is bearing fruit. Since we have been chosen and appointed to bear fruit, any request we make related to fruit bearing will be granted. Taking it further, God grants requests that bring more souls to Him, that help others to see and know Him better, that bring Him glory. If our requests do more for us than they do for Him, don’t expect a favorable answer.
“Truly, truly I say to you if you ask the Father for anything in My name He will give it to you. Until now you have asked for nothing in My name. Ask and you will receive, so that your joy may be made full.” John 16: 23b-24
Jesus is repeating himself (14: 13-14; 15:7). Just because there aren’t any conditions in these verses it doesn’t mean they don’t apply. Jesus’ intent was to remind the disciples to ask the Father in His name for whatever spiritual, kingdom enhancing needs they (and we) have.
“And whatever we ask, we receive from Him, because we keep His commandments and do the things that are pleasing in His sight.” I John 3:22
We ask and receive because we keep His commandments (which are God’s commandments) and do the things that are pleasing to Him. How do we find out what pleases Him? By reading the word and following Jesus’ example.
“This is the confidence which we have before Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests which we have asked from Him.” I John 5:14-15
Here is the key. What we ask for must be according to His will. The more time we spend with Them, in the word, with other believers, the better we know God’s will. When we pray, it must be in and with confidence that He hears. Since He hears every request, we can be sure that God gives His all to give us the very best. When what we receive doesn’t fit our request or our definition of “best”, then we have to remember that our vision and understanding is limited, and God sees a much bigger picture. In that bigger picture, what is going on is best for God, for others and for us.
“You do not have because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask with the wrong motives, so that you may spend what you request on your pleasures.” James 4:2b-3
Whatever we think we are missing in life, we should ask God for. If our request isn’t granted, then we need to check our motives for any trace of selfishness. In the rare instance that we don’t find any, then we have to have confidence and believe that it’s simply not yet the appointed time.
“Whatever you do in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father.” Colossians 3:17
Pray in the name of Jesus. Speak in the name of Jesus. Work, love, laugh, and play in the name of Jesus. Then watch and see what happens to your prayer life! It may not always be well with our lives, circumstances or bodies, but it will always be well with our souls.
How can we be sure? And how can we do all things in Jesus’ name? There is one more verse to add to our collection: John 14:26 “But the helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things and remind you of all that I said to you.”
One more thought. We really do need to ask in Jesus’ name. Not so we can get what we want, but because apart from Jesus, we are undeserving.